Life is not binary
When posed with life decisions most believe there is a right or a wrong choice. But life is not binary.
To believe there is always one right or wrong course of action is to believe you live in a video game.
Most decisions are merely a choice of many. And more often than not there are multiple choices that have more pros than cons. When you select one of the choices you begin a new path with more decisions, and in that moment there should be consequences.
Everyday you are free to make these decisions across a spectrum - not from a binary.
Always reframe problems across this spectrum.